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Fantastic Friday

Like the end of anything, Fridays are anticipated because they are the end of the work week for most people, and the beginning of the weekend. Can we say 5 o'clock anyone? I feel like my son has reached the end of his "little kid" life as he's now in kindergarten, and is growing up way to fast for me. Just this evening we were stalling for bed time finishing our cookies for dessert and we clicked through the folders of pictures on our PS3. Caleb was enthralled that I started with pictures of him as a baby. Adelynn kept asking when we were going to see pictures of her, so I obliged and we ended up burning through 20 minutes real quick! As I bathed them and get them in bed, I thought of something a friend told me today as she was so kindly complimenting me on some of the things I've written here about the kids. She told me I should make sure to write a lot more down and then print them out for the kids' baby books, etc. She and her twin sister had been going through their mom's photo albums and wished she had written more down about them as kids. Of course she was happy that she had pictures, but the memories begin to fade without details. In any case, here is a simple 20 things about my kids that I wanted to write down before they are older and I've forgotten. It also made me smile to write these precious moments down, because I am still in the thick of tantrums, bad attitudes, potty training, wet beds, rejected dinners, etc. So seeing all the sweet things about my kids written down brings peace in the midst of parenting trials. I thank God for my kids every day even as I struggle to view and treat them as blessings instead of burdens.

The Things I’ll forget if I don’t write them down.

  1. Adelynn is only two and can speak in full sentences and have a completely coherent phone conversation.
  2. Caleb is just hitting that awkward stage, and I think it’s simply adorable.
  3. My children will entertain each other outside for an entire hour with only minimal disagreements…Which usually fizzles into laughter.
  4. If I give Caleb a Popsicle stick (or five) he will create something with it.
  5. If I give Adelynn a Popsicle stick, she will put it in her pocket to save for later.
  6. Adelynn loves all things mammal…Especially dogs, cats and horses.
  7. Caleb has no interest in animals other than our own cat and Grammies chickens.
  8. My daughter is a lover of water.
  9. Caleb acts like he’s going to die if the only thing he can drink is water.
  10. Adelynn would much rather sit on my lap and listen to me talk to other grown ups than play with kids her own age.
  11. Caleb will enter a new home as comfortably as if it were his own, and play with any child around him who will join him. Be it a one year old or a ten year old.
  12. Caleb will find words all around him and try to read them. (I’m hoping he can’t see billboards well enough yet…)
  13. Adelynn MUST get into the car herself, put her straps on, click every part and tighten it herself. And if you do any part of it without her help, you must undo it so that she can re-do it.
  14. Adelynn has the scream of a banshee…
  15. Caleb will yell with laughter for no reason. And then tell me he was “Dreaming about something funny”
  16. When you tell the kids to say goodnight to each other, Caleb will run up to Adelynn pick her up, hug and kiss her and then drop her. –She laughs.
  17. Caleb has the MOST hilarious run…When he runs, his head and shoulders DO NOT MOVE…He’s like a little wind up toy where you see only the running parts on the ground move. Watch him sometime; you’ll see what I mean.
  18. Adelynn doesn’t prefer to run, unless it’s in a parking lot. Seriously.
  19. Both my kids love to be tickled, wrestled, and otherwise rough housed. And they love kisses and hugs, but Caleb only at appropriate times.
  20. My kids love it that I make homemade crackers, yogurt, bread and smoothies. I think they would live on those four things alone if I let them. Caleb would add broccoli to that list, and Adelynn would add meat.

Thankful Thursday; Remembering the “Terrible Twos” in 20 Ways

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So A-girl is three months into the terrible twos although they started a long time ago. In an effort to remain sane while traveling through this season of life with her, I feel compelled to write down all the things she does and says that will make me miss her at this age, despite the tantrums, manipulating, and dramatics that accompany my two year old daughter. 

 

20 ways you will make me smile (forever)

1. Your beautiful blue eyes.

2. How everyone says you have your mama's curls. (I don't trust them to last, so I'm enjoying them now!)

3. The way your eyes get HUGE when we are really close and talking about something "So Cool"

4. How you potty trained yourself because you wanted to be a big girl. I really hope you grow out of wanting to be a big girl…You'll grow up way to fast like mama did.

5. It makes my laugh and smile to see you traipsing around the house in nothing but your pink panties and high heeled princess shoes.

6. It makes me smile to remember how well you can speak at this age, but how you never say the "s" at the beginning of a word. Spaceship becomes "Paceship" and spaghetti is "Paghetti" 

7. The way you light up whenever daddy comes home.

8. How eager you are to help me in the kitchen dumping measuring spoons and watching my ever-constant mixer go 'round and 'round.

9. Your chubby little buns…Oh, I could just squeeze all day!

10. It makes me smile that you both have similar white lovey blankets; The name of your white blanket is "Neenee". Brother's white favorite blanket was "Boo" (And I have no idea where either name came from.)

11. It makes me smile to listen to how sweet you are to your brother even when he isn't nice to you.

12. You know how to use your manners. It does a mama's heart good to hear that.

13. Whenever you are sad, you want to sit on my lap and snuggle for as long as I can sit. (Which isn't long these days)

14. That you love to go shopping with me, even when it's to Walmart and I haven't promised you a toy. (Because I don't need to, and most times I don't even need  a snack for you either)

15. It makes me smile to hear you call yourself a princess. Even though it brings frantic thoughts of drama and pinkness beyond my comprehension.

16. That when you fall asleep in my arms you still do your little baby whimper-smile with your sweet little lips. 

17. It makes me smile that you are always willing to sit and read. You love books.

18. I think it's pretty cool that you love to count, sing songs pretty well and are well on your way to knowing the whole alphabet.

19. It makes me smile when you do something that your brother asks you to do without questioning him, because you trust him completely. (May be dangerous some day…)

20. It makes me smile knowing that God gave you to me for this sweet time and I get the privilege of watching you grow and teaching you all the wonders of Christ so that you too may one day know and love Him as much as I do.

I love my babies!

 

Thankful Thursday October 13th, 2011

Thankful for you! Your patience with me as I struggle to balance life; God, children, a traveling husband, a clean house, a well fed family, etc…

Thanks for sticking around and listening to me come up with excuses as to why I haven't posted anything lately. There is no crew of people (or sponsors to pay me or them) hanging out here waiting for me to give directions and delegate online chores/writing…It's just me.

I am still recovering from a long weekend away, and coming home without the engineer at my side to help with the kids or household stuff. I actually found myself being dramatic with him on Skype last night about how I had to take out the trash cans, how I had to empty the dishwasher, etc…I found myself laughing about it afterwards. Because, no I wasn't really complaining…I was making a point that I missed him and really appreciated the things he does around the house to help me. (Gee, I hope he understood that was my point- I'll have to clarify later!)

My kids have been especially "spirited" this week. My daughter is in the throws of the "terrible twos" and my son is challenging every rule (still) as he struggles with being a big kindergartner and yet still a very little (read: irresponsible) boy. They want structure and rules, yet are constantly challenging my authority.

But I am thankful…

Thankful that I have been blessed with two children. Some either struggle with the desire for a family while others struggle with even wanting the family they have.

Thankful that my husband loves me and is committed to working through some issues we have and growing together in our relationship.

Thankful that even though we have NO money right now, all my wants needs are being provided for. 

Thankful for my God who loved me so much that He died for me, took away all my sins, and continues to grow me and stretch me in ways that are sometimes painful but result in great fruit. Thank you Jesus!

And last, but already mentioned; YOU! My readers who are patient with me and continue to read my posts. 

Happy Thursday!